The divorce is in the rear mirror.
You found love again.
You brought two households together.
You imagined a bigger table…more laughter…shared adventures.
Then reality pulled up a chair.
Suddenly, everything feels like a tug of war.
Alliances form.
Kids get stuck in the middle.
And if autism or ADHD are in the mix?
Every tiny shift feels louder, brighter, harder to predict.
You plan the hand‑offs.
You color‑code the calendar.
You deliver the pep talks.
Yet, the meltdowns still land in the hallway at 8:07 p.m.—just when the baby is finally asleep and the dog decides to bark.
But why?!
Because blending a family is really hard, and even harder in a neurodiverse household.
Yet understanding each other’s brain wiring can be the real game-changer.
It’s not about who’s right or who needs to try harder.
It’s about seeing that sensory overload, missed cues, or scattered follow-through might not be intentional—just different.
When we drop the blame and shame, we make space for new strategies that work for your actual family, not some textbook version.
Understanding and compassion becomes the glue.
And yes—this can be learned.
How is your blended family doing?
Take these tests to find out:
➤ For STEP-parents:
Blended Family- Step-Parent-Integration & Resilience Questionnaire
➤ For BIO-parents:
Blended Family-Biological Parent-Synergy & Collaboration Inventory
➤ For ALL parents:
Blended Family-Parent-Well-Being Questionnaire (BF-Family-WQ-25)
➤ For CHILDREN (minor & adults):
Blended Family-Child-Adaptation and Well‐Being Scale
Take them all here: https://www.blendedfamilycounselingcenter.com/self-discovery
With these tests, you'll get concrete feedback on topics like:
Communication & Bonding with Stepchild
Integration & Sense of Belonging
Co-Parenting & Collaboration with the Biological Parent
Conflict Management & Support
They’ll spotlight what you need to work on and how we can help.
We blend neuro‑informed knowledge with step‑family wisdom.
We explore ways to grow—without asking anyone to mask who they are.
Ready to blend better?
➤ Book a free consultation today.
Let’s rebuild a home where every brain—and every heart—fits.
With hope,
Harry Motro
Clinical Director, Neurodiverse Couples Counseling Center and Blended Family Counseling Center
🔦 Spotlight on Lea Choi
Specialties
Neurodiverse Couples Counseling
ADHD & Autism Relationship Coaching
Emotional Regulation
Executive Functioning Support
Complex Parenting Challenges
Multicultural & Intercultural Relationships
LGBTQIA+, Poly & Kink-Affirming
Personal Experience
Lived Experience in a Neurodiverse Relationship – Navigated firsthand the challenges of differing communication styles, sensory needs, and emotional processing.
Proudly AuDHD
Overcame years of feeling unseen by developing relationship strategies that work for both partners, not just one.
Discovered that love isn’t always verbal—it can be expressed through small, meaningful actions.
Disclaimer: These questionnaires are meant to spark insight and self‑reflection. Each one can serve as a springboard for noticing patterns, naming challenges, and starting honest conversations—whether with a partner, therapist, coach, or supportive friend.
Because these tools are still in development and have not undergone formal scientific validation, their reliability and accuracy are not yet established. They are not diagnostic instruments and should never replace a professional evaluation. For individualized guidance, please consult with one of our clinicians.
© 2025 New Path Family of Therapy Centers Inc. All rights reserved. No portion of these questionnaires may be reproduced, redistributed, or used in any form without explicit written permission from the Blended Family Therapy Center.
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