When your partner constantly corrects you, it can feel arrogant, demeaning, and emotionally exhausting. But in many neurodiverse relationships, this behavior isn’t about control—it’s about safety. Understanding the neuroscience behind the “hypercritical” partner can transform blame into clarity and help couples repair what chronic correction erodes.

We do routine maintenance on everything that matters—our cars, our teeth, our bodies. But most couples wait until their relationship is breaking down before asking for help. In neurodiverse partnerships, this delay leads to burnout, loneliness, and mutual masking. A neurodiverse relationship check-up offers a smarter, preventative way to understand your wiring before crisis hits.

Have you ever walked into a room to ask your partner a simple question—like “Do you want lunch?”—and been met with silence, irritation, or a look that says you’ve committed a crime? You’re not dealing with rudeness. You’re dealing with hyperfocus. When a neurodivergent brain locks into deep focus, interruptions can feel physically painful. This post introduces The Supply Drop—a way to support a hyperfocused partner’s body without breaking their brain or damaging your connecti