Executive Skills Self-Check

Executive skills are the set of mental tools that get something from an intention into the world: starting, remembering, sequencing, holding steady, adjusting. Nobody is strong in all of them. Most people have a couple that come free and a couple that cost them real effort every single day.

This is not a diagnosis and it is not a verdict. It is a map of where your effort is going, so you can stop treating a skill gap as a character flaw and start building around it.

There are twelve sections, three statements each. Rate every statement from 1 to 7 using the scale below, based on how well it describes you — not how well you wish it described you. Then add the three scores in that section and write the total in the box.

Rating scale

Example — Score: 1 · Meaning: Strongly disagree

Example — Score: 2 · Meaning: Disagree

Example — Score: 3 · Meaning: Tend to disagree

Example — Score: 4 · Meaning: Neutral

Example — Score: 5 · Meaning: Tend to agree

Example — Score: 6 · Meaning: Agree

Example — Score: 7 · Meaning: Strongly agree

You do the adding: Nothing here scores itself. You total each set of three yourself, and you read the key at the end yourself. That is deliberate — the arithmetic is trivial and it keeps you in contact with your own answers instead of waiting for a number to be handed to you.

Section 1

I can pause before reacting, even when something lands hard.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I usually find out what I need to know before I act.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I can hold a thought back until it is a good moment to say it.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 1 total (3–21)

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Section 2

I can hold several pieces of information in my head while I work on something.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I remember what I have agreed to do without needing to write it down.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I rarely need a reminder to finish something I said I would finish.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 2 total (3–21)

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Section 3

Strong feelings do not usually pull me off what I am doing.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Small frustrations pass through me without taking over the rest of the day.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I can set a feeling aside and come back to it once a task is done.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 3 total (3–21)

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Section 4

I can start a task soon after I decide to do it.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Putting things off is not usually a problem for me.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I rarely find myself doing things at the very last minute.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 4 total (3–21)

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Section 5

I can stay with a task even after it stops being interesting.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Once I begin something, I keep going until it is finished.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

After an interruption, I can find my place again and carry on.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 5 total (3–21)

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Section 6

When I look at my day, I can tell which things matter most.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

With a lot on my plate, I can pick the important thing and start there.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I break big jobs into smaller steps with rough timings attached.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 6 total (3–21)

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Section 7

I have systems for keeping track of my things and my information.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

The spaces I work in stay in a state where I can find what I need.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

When a system of mine stops working, I notice and rebuild it.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 7 total (3–21)

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Section 8

Most days I finish roughly what I set out to finish.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I can guess how long something will take and be reasonably close.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I get to appointments on time without a last-minute scramble.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 8 total (3–21)

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Section 9

When plans change on me, I can adjust without it costing much.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

New information does not throw me; I can revise what I was doing.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I can work from a rough outline rather than needing every detail settled first.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 9 total (3–21)

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Section 10

I can step back and see myself in a situation, almost from the outside.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I look back at how something went and change my approach next time.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I notice when my approach is not working and can try a different one.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 10 total (3–21)

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Section 11

When something matters to me, I keep going until I get there.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I can pass up something enjoyable now for something I want later.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

I set a standard for my own work and hold myself to it.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 11 total (3–21)

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Section 12

I do well when things are fast-moving and demanding.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

A bit of pressure sharpens me rather than swamping me.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Not knowing what a day will hold does not bother me much.

• Your score (1–7): ____________________

Section 12 total (3–21)

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Read your key

Match each section number to its skill below. Then find your two or three highest totals — those are your strengths — and your two or three lowest, which are the ones currently costing you the most effort.

What each section was measuring

Example — Section: 1 · Executive skill: Response inhibition · What it means: Putting a gap between the impulse and the action, so you get a moment to weigh it.

Example — Section: 2 · Executive skill: Working memory · What it means: Holding information in mind while you use it, and pulling up what you already know when it is relevant.

Example — Section: 3 · Executive skill: Emotional control · What it means: Carrying a feeling without it steering the whole task or the whole day.

Example — Section: 4 · Executive skill: Task initiation · What it means: Getting from deciding to doing, without a long stall in between.

Example — Section: 5 · Executive skill: Sustained attention · What it means: Staying with something through boredom, tiredness, or interruption.

Example — Section: 6 · Executive skill: Planning and prioritization · What it means: Building a route to a goal, and knowing what to leave out.

Example — Section: 7 · Executive skill: Organization · What it means: Creating and keeping systems that hold your materials and information.

Example — Section: 8 · Executive skill: Time management · What it means: Sensing how much time you have, what it will take, and staying inside it.

Example — Section: 9 · Executive skill: Flexibility · What it means: Revising a plan when something changes, without it costing you the whole day.

Example — Section: 10 · Executive skill: Metacognition · What it means: Watching yourself work, and adjusting based on what you notice.

Example — Section: 11 · Executive skill: Goal-directed persistence · What it means: Staying pointed at something over time while other things compete for you.

Example — Section: 12 · Executive skill: Stress tolerance · What it means: Functioning when things are unpredictable, fast, or heavily demanded.

Your two or three highest sections — your strengths

e.g. Name the skill and the score. Then write one place in your life where this one quietly carries you.

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Your two or three lowest sections — where the effort is going

e.g. Name the skill and the score. Then write one thing that gets harder because of it.

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Pick your lowest one. What is the smallest outside support that would take some of the load off it?

e.g. Not willpower. A timer, a checklist, a standing time, a shared calendar, someone who starts the task alongside you, a shorter version of the task. The point is to move effort out of your head and into the environment.

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Where could a strength cover for a weak spot?

e.g. Strong on organization but weak on initiation? A system that makes the first step visible does the starting for you. Look for pairs like that.

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Low scores are load, not character: A low section does not mean you are lazy or careless. It means that particular skill has never run cheaply for you, and every task that leans on it is charging you extra. Once you can name which one, you can stop paying that tax out of pure effort and start building something outside your head to carry it.

Go deeper

Ready for more? These lessons pick up where this worksheet leaves off.

• Executive Function, from The Neurodivergent Brain. Why the ADHD brain runs on interest not importance, why autistic set-shifting is costly, plus time blindness & task initiation.
• Systems, Habits, and Self-Compassion, from The Adult ADHD Course. How to make self-compassion the engine that keeps your habits and systems running.
• Working Memory, Clutter, and the Doom Pile, from The Adult ADHD Course. Why 'out of sight' means 'out of mind' with ADHD, how the doom pile forms, and how to build an external brain.