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DISCERNMENT COUNSELING

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MEET EMMA AND LUCAS...

(Not their real names)


After years of misunderstanding and failed attempts with therapists who didn’t grasp the nuances of their neurodiverse relationship, they’re at their breaking point.

 

Their latest fight was the last straw: Emma felt dismissed when Lucas forgot their anniversary, and Lucas was overwhelmed by Emma’s emotional response.

 

Emma threatens divorce. But it doesn’t mean very much because she never acts on it.

 

They don’t know what to do.  

 

Desperation brought them to me with one GIGANTIC question:

 

Should we try to save this relationship?

A photo of neurodiverse expert and therapist, Colleen Kahn. Colleen sees clients with Neurodiverse Couples Counseling Center and is here to support you on your journey.

ON THE BRINK


When a neurodiverse marriage is on the brink of falling apart, couples face the hardest choice of their lives.

 

Here are some of the questions that haunt them:

 

  • Is this a phase in marriage that will pass? Is this just a personal crisis?

     

  • Do…

DISCERNMENT COUNSELING: A PATH FORWARD


Fortunately, there’s a way to help couples get unstuck: Discernment Counseling.

 

The goal of Discernment Counseling isn’t to solve your marital problems but to determine if they can be solved.

 

We answer 2 questions:

 

  1. What would have to change to make this…

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NUTS & BOLTS OF DISCERNMENT COUNSELING

Discernment Counseling:

 

  • Is a structured assessment process, not treatment.

     

  • Is a brief, time-limited process, typically completed in five sessions or less.

     

  • Slows down the impulse to act, encouraging a longer view of your marriage and a broader range of choices.

     

  • Provides the…

BEACON OF HOPE


We understand how lonely and desperate couples feel when on the brink of separation or divorce.

 

Discernment Counseling offers a beacon of hope.

 

Couples who go through this process often feel much better, no matter what path they ultimately choose.

 

It provides clarity, reduces…

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